Wednesday, August 13, 2014

It takes a village, which was very convenient today! Wednesday Aug 13th

It takes a village, which just so happens to be exactly where we were!

All I can say is “WOW”.  Ok that is never true.  I always have more to say.   Today we got an education and an internship all at the same time.  We helped to begin the building of a 2 room home. 


Now we have hired a team of 5 workers including a “contractor” but its best, we have learned, to be on site to help “motivate” people to put in a day’s work for a day’s wage.  Don’t get me wrong, Ugandan’s can work very hard, but when you are paying wages by the day, it complicates the initiative and energy of even the most talented.  So we showed up at the job site about 10:30 after picking up food to be prepared for the day. 

We had arranged delivery of 4,000 bricks, a load or 2 of sand, cement mix, stones and stones in two sizes.  By the time we arrived, the trench had been dug.  Next step was to put a layer of rocks in the bottom of the trenches.  The pile was about 10 yards from the trench and thankfully “white” faced Muzungus attract a LOT of children.  They were not afraid or hesitant to join in on anything we were doing, so with a small tribe of children we picked up and carried about a gazillion pounds of rock until the trenches were sufficiently filled.  

Our 15 year old John NEVER took a break start to finish.  Most of the time he did the hardest physical labors During the very few moments he did rest, he stood watching and learning.
 
Then bricks were needed so our same small tribe, like little ducks, did exactly the same thing moving a brick or two at a time until we had about 1,000 bricks surrounding the perimeter.  I am not exaggerating when I say that 3-year-olds were carrying bricks and rocks with such joy.  Concrete was mixed with sand, then water was added to the mixture and using hoes, mixed in. 
 
 
 The water came from jerricans that the kids brought from some swamp source nearby.  That was poured into a 55 gallon drum and scooped out, which means that it never really got low enough to reach in or tip to pour.  

The cement was delivered to the brick layers by shovel or one rented wheelbarrow ($2.00 per week), and the first course was laid. 

 There is a corner expert who was doing some string stuff that may have been leveling and marking the height for each row of bricks.   












Dann filled the space between the bricks and the process went on for 6 rows or about 900 bricks.  Back breaking for him, not so much for the rest.  All the while we were moving bricks closer to the ones laying them refilling for them so that they had one in easy reach at all times.  

Our kitchen crew worked tirelessly all day making sure the children and workers had plenty to nourish them, probably another reason these little ones stayed close.
Truth be told this picture is of these women eating, our Sarah and Olivia did all of the cooking and dish washing today giving them a day of rest in the kitchen.


None of the children left us all day.  They alternated between playing with us and jumping right in to fetch and carry the next thing.  The smallest of children, even a couple of toddlers were joining right in with us, not slower, not complaining and not a single foot fell victim to a heavy dropped brick or stone.  
Grandmother Ruth said so many things to us at every opportunity, but we have no idea the specifics, just that she is unbelievably grateful.  I sat for a while with her while Olivia translated and we talked about Jesus and his love for her.  Her life in a way resembles Job’s story.  She has lost so much, a husband and a number of her 6 children.  Her desperation in trying to provide for the 5 grandsons is evident.  So “why God” is her question.  We focused on Job’s realization that life itself is a gift, who are we to question God’s purpose and that our suffering is temporary compared to eternity.  She has accepted Jesus as her savior and promised that as she sits next to God in heaven, I could sit just next to her on the other side.  I reminded her that it is God who has sent us, God who directed people to give to help and God who loves her no matter the circumstance.  She seemed so genuinely understanding of his love, but I realize that she is no different than the rest of us.  When good times come, we praise Him and feel so loved.  When loss and struggle are the order of the day, we wonder, question and feel like he is distant.  

Dann found himself at one point sitting and entertaining the children.  He would point to a part of the body, say its name and they’d repeat it…picture a dozen giggling children.  I don’t know why but as we were listening to them, at one point he was saying words in Spanish which I found ironically hilarious.  With a language barrier anyway, why not give them a little “muchacha”.  To be honest, I’m not sure Dann knew what he was saying but the hilarity amongst them all was so joyful.

Olivia and Sarah came along today to help with cooking and washing dishes for everyone.  John and Yoweri came to help with the building.  John worked so hard all day, rarely stopping.  Yoweri had to be encouraged a bit, but when told he may not get to come again tomorrow, he pushed into high gear.

Olivia and I joined them the young children during a lull in the carrying,  and taught our VBS favorite “Jesus Loves Me”.  Its not the traditional melody but full of fun.  

At one point during the day, a motorcycle “ice cream” or flavored ice in cones guy drove by with music playing, just like the ice cream man would stateside.  We ordered for everyone at 4 cents a cone.  Crazy but true.

Once the 6 courses of brick were up (above ground level) we broke for lunch.  It wasn’t long before work resumed.  The interior needed dirt to be filled and compacted up to brick row # 5 and what a job.  Throughout the day, though we did not understand much of what was said, they welcomed us to work, though I am sure less efficiently, side by side and these men laughed, and talked to each other all day in what seemed more like small talk and laughing, the environment was filled with excitement and just joy.  They were entertained my our occasional antics. 


Shovel after shovel was thrown in and then they beat the dirt with 4 foot long logs as if raising an ax over their heads then pounding the ground.  Both rooms compacted and brick layers continuing their task, we began again, children too, carrying more rocks and tossing them into each interior room.  This will be filler as to reduce the amount of cement which is very expensive.  After 5 more rows of brick, and the clock reading 5:45pm we called it a day having laid more than 1400 bricks today.
 

It crazy to me but I have to tell you that these men worked for 9-10 hours and their daily rate is $8.  They are happy to receive it.  

We are exhausted, but grateful for a bed tonight.  Sleep will easily come, but so will the aches and pains when we wake.  God grants us the time and ability to work, its just that these bodies aren’t meant for forever and we will not acknowledge that we are anything but able…so we’ll suffer tomorrow.  But there is just no better reason to do so.  Jesus suffered so much more for us.  I believe we can put in a few more days to honor him and create a safe and clean place for 5 of his favorite kind of people to live.  

Each time, each trip I wonder why on this earth he would choose the two of us, mended from brokenness, but still so flawed.  Grace is like that, undeserving participants make up the entirety of the kingdom.  My heart overflows with the joy of today.  With being with our own Chayah children who willingly serve others…all day, back breaking work, and hoping to “get” to come again tomorrow.  To God be the glory…great things He has done…

Today was backbreakingly AMAZING!  There is no other joy like serving someone so appreciative and so unworthy and yet so worthy all at the same time.  

We learned a lot today…but mostly that God allows us to love others in a way that also feels like undeserved love to us.  To those of you who contributed financially to this project, I can only say “thank you” and may the God who sees bless you abundantly for your sacrifice.  It matters, it makes a difference and God is glorified. 
Good night!























































 

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

What architect? August 12th

We began our morning negotiating for a lunch for some children from Compassion International.  We met them once before in 2012, and though it was supposed to be the children and their Compassion representatives, families excited to meet sponsors jumped on board and we had quite a group to feed.  We are anticipating they same size group again and so are trying to come up with a menu that satisfies everyone and still leaves us with enough for a ticket back to the US.  

Ebola update:  Do you know it is covered on the US news stations by far more time and concern than here?  We've watched the news in the dining room during meals a couple of times and haven't seen much at all.

We met with another ministry here this morning, touring their place and hearing about their efforts to keep children with their mothers, providing services, encouragement, education and emergency housing.  Traffic was a little heavy as we left and we learned that livestock have the right of way. PERIOD!

Tomorrow we begin our project in Kakira and we had some pre-building business to attend to.  Every once in a while we come across something that looks like so much fun, I'm tempted to climb out of the van myself and join in...collecting water + babysitting a sibling + wooden wheelbarrow.

 

Just when I thought the excitement was over and we'd driven by the best ride in town...we choose the same single lane road as this guy and had to get out and try to decide which side we'd have the best chance of surviving...muddy ditch to the left, uneven high mounds of dirt on the right.  We chose the former and prayed our way over the great high-center potential.  

 
We finally made it our destination and began our discussions for building plans tomorrow.
Like all great construction projects we began with drawing out the plans...
 
 Next came the meeting with contractors and supervisors...supplies were decided on and ordered for delivery, including the number of shovels and trowels we'd need. 
 Considering our lack of common language between parties combined with our ZERO experience building in red dirt, bricks and tin...we thought it best to pray over the site early on and ask for a mighty miracle to build something to protect and not potentially kill its inhabitants.

 The tiny grandmother raising 5 boys including twins was overjoyed and though we could understand almost nothing she said, it was clear she was grateful for the help.  We've been helping the boys attend school and with emergency food help, so we sat with them a bit and went over each report card from this last term.  Some did well, the others have struggled and it was difficult to determine whether it is lack of effort, interest, ability or attendance.  Regardless we used every bit of encouragement we had to remind them of the opportunity they have and that we care about them regardless.  The culture in Kakira is different, even then other areas nearby.  Its difficult to see motivation in they eyes of most when hope for change seems distant and results in disappointment.
 Meanwhile, California...I know our water shortage seems inconvenient, but perhaps knowing that every ounce of water here has to be carried quite a distance can help us appreciate what we do have.  Tomorrow when concrete is mixed...by hand...in the dirt...someone will carry that burden and Jerrican for us as well.

And then we saw this and I can't get over what was written in chalk in the front of a church...somehow it doesn't fit at all and yet must be completely necessary. Go figure!
We stopped off at the Lady's Business Class weekly meeting to greet and encourage them.  Of course that is exactly what they did for us too.

We stopped in town for some fabric, thread and to replace a book that somehow escaped from what was delivered yesterday, and then headed to Chayah.

We played spoons, netball and read some books to the youngest on the front porch before threatening rain sent us on our way back to the hotel. 

To this point our time here has been so great, productive and relational.  Tomorrow promises to be much more physical and I didn't see much shade in the building area.  We'll attract dozens of curious children tomorrow I'm sure and I'm praying we are able to do a bit more than take there pictures.  Perhaps the Lord will inspire something while we attempt to dig and pour a foundation where dying corn stalks lay today.  Building homes, building relationships, building the Kingdom...one piece at a time with the perfect cornerstone in Christ. 


 "So then you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with the saints, and members of God’s household,  built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus Himself as the cornerstone.  The whole building, being put together by Him, grows into a holy sanctuary in the Lord. You also are being built together for God’s dwelling in the Spirit."  Ephesians 2:19-22
"He is the STONE WHICH WAS REJECTED by you, THE BUILDERS, but WHICH BECAME THE CHIEF CORNER stone. "And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved - See more at: http://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Cornerstone#sthash.BaKnlv8x.dpuf

"He is the STONE WHICH WAS REJECTED by you, THE BUILDERS, but WHICH BECAME THE CHIEF CORNER stone. "And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved - See more at: http://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Cornerstone#sthash.BaKnlv8x.dpuf

"He is the STONE WHICH WAS REJECTED by you, THE BUILDERS, but WHICH BECAME THE CHIEF CORNER stone. "And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved - See more at: http://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Cornerstone#sthash.BaKnlv8x.dpuf

 


Monday, August 11, 2014

Nothin' but net! and a few other things. Aug 11th


We had a very full day 2 so I’m just gonna hit the highlights and let the photos speak for themselves.

We left the hotel at 8:30 on a boda to exchange money at the bank.  Touched base with Fount of Mercy, the women’s business class coordinator, meeting #1 at Amazima regarding property, arranged for our future accountant (Chayah child) to visit them soon for some motivation and introduction to real world accounting.  Met Dr. Charles, a pediatrician to discuss immunizations, boy part procedures, eye tests and arranged for our oldest future doctor to spend some days volunteering in his office over the break.  Talked to a few store owners about carrying a special t shirt design the girls will be making later this week.

Found Jude and her bakery and bought two of the most amazing smelling loaves of bread on record from this 80+ year old Australian woman, then headed for Chayah.

We sorted clothing, craft supplies, fabric and shoes. Some will stay at our home, the rest is headed to Kakira this week.  Rachel Harvey  the shoes were a huge hit!







 Dann installed a Net-Ball hoop, which is exactly the same as a basketball hoop without a backboard.  There is no dribbling, and movement is limited to one foot when you have the ball.  Guess who played net-ball in college and even earned a small scholarship?  Yep…its her!













We played the matching game a bit.

Books from sponsors were passed out, each with a photo and personal note and we watched them accept each one with a big smile. 
 
 

 

 

 

 Dann did more guitar teaching,
then played net ball and accompanied a session of singing and dancing while Janet and I got the t shirts for sewing ready and made the first two felt animals. 

 I visited with Jennifer and Agnus as they cooked.
and sat with Olivia watching a Brooklyn Tabernacle concert DVD.  














We discovered Yoweri's artistic talent, but aren't sure he chose a great medium :)
The signed soccer balls sent from Reality Ventura's VBS were pumped up and treasured.

 

We left the house at 5:30 and headed for a meeting back at the hotel with Janet and the chief probation officer (child protection and care officer) regarding our children, the necessary care orders and where we are in the process.  It may have been the best news and conversation we have had concerning the call on our hearts for Kakira’s vulnerable children, the laws of Uganda and our ability to help more children in the future.  This wonderful woman has been such an encouragement and help to our house mom and was off work and out of her office for the exact two weeks we are here, but she drove about 4 hours today to meet with us and will head back to her conference in Kampala tomorrow.  She has a heart the size of …well huge and a position to really make a difference.  We are so so grateful for the chance to meet with her face to face and have our many questions and concerns answered.   

It really was a day filled with every sort of joy and we are exhausted in the best kind way.  Pictures will have to fill in the blanks, but I doubt you’ll be left wondering much.

Sunday, August 10, 2014

"You are welcome" Aug. 10th, 2014



“You are welcome”

After a great night’s sleep we joined friends from Unchanging Truth Ministries for breakfast, made a quick check of email, hopped on Boda Bodas and couldn’t get to Chayah early enough.  We tried to sneak in the gate, but those little ones have come to know our shared routine for visiting.  They finish a school term and we show up to play them through their free time.  

Church under the carport (garage) roof hadn’t yet officially started, but the singing had.  We sat in the back row seats, except that seats are ever changing as people from the neighborhood, arriving throughout the service, are treated to a plastic chair and others rotate out to the planter edge on either side.  The “Bright Stars” did a skit about the judgment day and Shalom choir lead us in worship.  Pastor Roman, is so very engaging and animated in his teaching, engaging the children and congregation by name throughout.  

We were shocked and so excited to see Chayah’s guard and our friend, Joel, at the service this morning.  We had planned to visit him in the hospital this afternoon.  We heard all the dramatic details of his Malaria-induced seizure and the older kids carrying his stiff unconscious body into the van.  Janet does not drive at night, but made an exception during the emergency, picking up his wife, and being sent away at two clinics.  She had to prepay the doctor and run out to a 24 hour pharmacy to purchase the medication.  He regained consciousness after 2 long days and after witnessing 3 people in the ward die, he got up and left.  “The third person was in the bed right next to me, so I decided I was probably next, so I just got up and walked out of the hospital.”  Well, ok then.  The children were so relieved to see him at church this morning and we are so grateful God chose to heal him.  I cannot believe I didn’t get a picture with our walking miracle.  

When the service ended, we did our best to get our arms around every single one of our family.  “You are welcome” was repeated to us over and over accompanied by the slightest curtsy. 
We discussed this week’s plans with Janet and caught up on things, examined the bundle of wiring that had to be replaced after the youngest thought hitting live wires from a light fixture in the yard would be fun.  “Fireworks, fireworks!” were followed by the house filling with smoke and a few hysteric.  Somehow Edrine knew to go to the electrical panel and very calmly started turning things off.  Electricians replaced all of the wiring in the house after it shorted and but I don’t think there was one thing short about the talking to the 4 youngest received over this fiasco.  

We walked next door to a 4-plex that is in the final stages of building.  We looked at it with Janet trying to imagine something like that for our group.  It is difficult to find a landowner who wants to rent to 19 children…we can’t blame them one bit.  They aren’t interested in selling the property.   
We visited on the front porch for a bit, then played our own version of “headbands” (minus the headband part).  Rain poured down outside, so we played Frisbee inside. 


Dann worked with John and Edrine on some new guitar chords.  

Somewhere along the way lunch was served, the rain stopped and there was more group Frisbee out on the lawn.  Some jet lag told us it was time to head back about 5:30 or so. 
It takes so little time to adjust to being back.  We’ve met 3 other groups who are staying at the hotel and serving in the area this week and we enjoy exchanging information, plans and reports.  God works through his people in so many ways, so many people with huge hearts for children.  It’s really so encouraging to know that we walk with others on this particular journey to serve and protect vulnerable children. 

That’s it for tonight.  We’ll hit the ground running in the morning and praying to make the most of every day we are here.  The end of the journey always comes too soon.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Our H O P E

Uncomfortable & wrestling...




This post has been started in my head a hundred times, usually in the middle of the night when the warm sheets and cool summer night air discourage me from getting up and actually writing anything down. 

The delay has been both the comfort of my pillow AND how to address the subject matter in a way that doesn't make us all curl up in a ball at the depths of evil in our world.  

Our newsletter is intended to keep our wonderfully committed and supportive sponsors, donors and encouragers in the know and updated on the recent past, present and future hopes of daily life at Chayah.   Facebook posts are brief and current;  prayer requests or antics of a young family to be celebrated.

SOME    NEWS    JUST    DOESN'T    FIT     comfortably    ANYWHERE

Within the reality of this very new ministry, born out of desperate circumstances, is a truth that the  rescue and protection of children was created in the heart of God.  Doing something can be just plain reactionary as we experienced in 2012.  The questions for us were both "what can we possibly do?" and "how can we even imagine not doing...something?"

We've moved past the thrilling, frightening, humbling  months of setting things up stateside.  January 2013 contains memories of putting together a protective, stable home filled with every necessity, stocked with food.  We got to welcome children, arriving with a variety of physical illnesses, emotional fears and their own wonder about the future.  We have gotten to experience the sweetness of watching their lives even out through security, love, and a father in God himself.  Perhaps we should be content, grateful and settle in to what should feel like success.

AND      YET      WE      WRESTLE

because there is this thing called "all the rest" and we hear stories that instantly tear our thoughts from contentment to tears and the relief of doing something is quickly swamped by a grieving...and we wrestle... and the news is ugly and we are uncomfortable again because...

a young girl's life was taken at the direction of a witch doctor and her mutilated body was left just yards from the protective walls of Chayah.  It's not the life itself he demanded, but enough of her that she could not survive it.  Satan has wreaked havoc, stolen, destroyed and made promises he will never keep, to a desperate someone willing to do the unthinkable...  and our kids are shaken and fearful...

and we wrestle and its uncomfortable

because sisters 11 and 13 are pregnant and its common... and at that age they should be playing jump rope not skipping over their childhoods.  The 11 year-old is blind and in some ways if rape were the cause it would maybe be easier to stomach, as wretched as that would be.  But instead they sold themselves for 40 cents because its all they have to sell and because their house is full of siblings already and their mother is now raising her grandchildren too and there... is... nothing.  And because who can plan for a tomorrow when today is so desperate.  Two more tiny lives will enter a home bulging against cow-dung walls... and a girl, not old enough to babysit in our families, will, in just a few months, suffer through and deliver a baby onto the red dirt floor of their home unless her own barely-adolescent frame refuses to cooperate with this taxing burden of motherhood called birth.  And then what...

and we wrestle and it's uncomfortable

because girls disappear regularly headed off with who-knows-who, to a promise of a job as a house servant in the big capitol city of Kampala.  Except that there are thousands of street children there who would take the paying job if there really was one.  And when a couple of years later a 15 year old returns, pregnant and used up...well heads hang at the reality of broken promises and shame replaces ignorance.  Motherhood will again drown childhood unless of course disease steals them both.   
and we wrestle...and it's painful...

and this kind of news reaches all the way across our shared God-created-earth and it doesn't sit or fit well anywhere.  And we are earnestly "ministry minded" and "God-changed" and have asked Him to" break our hearts with what breaks His" and so He does...
and we wrestle...and it's difficult to bear the knowing

But it is not without      H     O     P     E